JANE: Women only think they have a sex drive because they dont risk pregnancy every time. Bob: So are you saying that contraception lets them feel they have a sex drive that they didnt have before? JANE: No. I am saying that mens sex drive takes no account of the risks. If women had a sex drive, contraception would make no difference. Women are more sexually willing now because they do not have the same pregnancy risk. Women make a conscious choice to offer a man intercourse. Bob: Of course, women have a sex drive. The women Ive known certainly did. JANE: No one has a drive to be penetrated. Think of your own anatomy. Do you have a drive to be anally penetrated? The drive comes from a man’s brain that sends signals to the penis & causes an erection. The clitoris does not respond in the same way. The vagina is a reproductive organ. Bob: I was trying to get clarification about what I thought was said. Just trying to understand. JANE: Women are talking about amenability (sexual desire). If they had orgasms, don’t you think that we would all know what anatomy & turnons are involved? No one can name any female erotic turnons. Most women refuse to comment on any aspect of sexuality. Betty: What do you mean women dont have a sex drive? JANE: What do you think I mean? It is ridiculous to suggest that women have a drive to be impregnated. If women had a sex drive, they would suffer sexual frustration, hassle a partner for sex, assault & rape men to get intercourse. Betty: I am 57 and my partner is 68. I want sex more than he does. He prefers to masturbate. We have been married for nearly 40 years and I enjoy sex. JANE: Nothing wrong with enjoying sex. Most women only ever engage in sexual activity in response to male sex drive. This is about wanting emotional intimacy. JANE (cont): I am talking about a response to eroticism. This involves the mind sending blood to the genitals. It is not about emotional responses. I am talking about orgasm specifically. If you can be explicit about orgasm as a response to eroticism, then please explain. JANE (cont): I have been asking women about orgasm for many years. Most refuse to comment. This does not indicate that they are enjoying sexual pleasure let alone orgasm. But please feel free to contact me if you can be explicit. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure