JANE: Why are men so unwilling to deliver what women want? Its important to see three points: (1) change is possible; (2) it isnt his fault that he is the way he is; and (3) there is no better alternative. (Kramer & Dunaway) Mohammed: My opinion as a man: maybe women fail to clearly spell out what they want and that makes it too soon for anyone to ask why are men not willing to deliver what women want?. Mohammed (cont): This question should be preceded by the explanation of what exactly women want, when, from who and in what form. Mohammed (cont): And what will they do when that thing is delivered by men? In conclusion I may say that it somewhat sounds logical to argue that men do not know what women want and women aren’t so kind to clarify their wants. JANE: You should have worked out by now that women don’t want sex as men do. Sex is primarily a male pleasure. You could always ask your partner what she wants. JANE (cont): Typically women are looking for a loving relationship. They appreciate a partner who demonstrates caring behaviours. They enjoy romance, which involves affectionate companionship, respect and admiration. Daniela : Like Mohammed said; Can you tell him what you want? It is possible to have different wants at different times in the relationship. I think open communication on both sides can help with understanding each other. Daniela (cont): Try to provide what she wants at different times. Thinking of the other more than you think of yourself. This can be a key understanding and serving (making happy) the one we love! Daniela (cont): A man or woman can have joy and satisfaction seeing the other one happy! Of course, for this to happen all the time reciprocity is needed! Emotional intelligence and social intelligence can be important too! Please think and feel all this and try to understand the one near you! JANE: For men, sex is vitally important to their emotional wellbeing. So they assume that it must be the same for a woman. Men insist that women want orgasm. In truth, most women want affection, respect and consideration. JANE (cont): Women focus on relationships, love and family. They refer to lovemaking rather than to erotic stimuli and specific genital stimulation. Men find this almost impossible to accept no matter how well a woman communicates. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure