JANE: Women attract men by sexualising themselves. John: And because men are attracted by what they see. JANE: The point is sexual attraction is one way. Men are attracted to women & women facilitate this by making themselves attractive to men. But women tend to choose a partner who can support them nothing to do with sexual attraction. Men do not supply erotic turnons for women. Erica: They do for this woman! JANE: Sorry but I don’t understand your comment. Please can you be more explicit? Who does what for women? Please give details! Erica: You said ‘Men do not supply erotic turnons for women.’ I disagree. When certain men have made me weak in the knees and… affected in other physical ways, it has nothing to do with their wallet. JANE: OK so what EROTIC turnons have men provided that might cause your arousal so as to assist with orgasm? I am not talking about emotional factors or physical stimulation such as the relationship, kissing, caressing etc. Turnons are psychological stimuli that cause mental arousal. Erica: I’ve never analyzed it that thoroughly. Pheromones? Chemistry? Attraction? All I know is I’ve known men to whom I am sexually drawn, and it had nothing to do with whether or not they could support me. I’ve heard ‘men go for looks, women go for money and power,’ but that’s not me. JANE: But I am asking you to explain how you get erotically turnedon. What erotic stimuli cause your mental arousal so that blood flows to the genitals causing the tumescence that makes orgasm possible? How does your partner provide stimuli that assist with your mental arousal? JANE (cont): You are talking about romantic factors that may cause a woman to offer intercourse. I am talking about sexual response (erotic arousal & orgasm). Nothing to do with a relationship. Orgasm is a response of the brain to erotic stimuli. It has nothing to do with emotional factors. Erica: That’s personal. But it’s not them telling me how big their bank accounts are. JANE: If women were aroused with a lover, female erotic turnons would be common knowledge. You are confusing the emotional factors of a loving relationship with sexual response. Women are attracted to a supportive partner not just money a man who is interested in them as a person. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all