Linda: You clearly do not understand that you cannot speak in absolutes when it comes to sex and arousal. JANE: Women do not pay for sex because they do not want sex per se. They want the emotional reward of pleasing a partner. Research shows that women have sex to make an emotional connection. It has nothing to do with enjoying eroticism. Linda: Erotic turnons: the sound of a man’s moan. It will get me every time. No matter who. No matter what I’m doing. Boom. Also how did we jump to paying for sex (which, yes they do. Probably not as frequently, but… They definitely do). JANE: You are making a common mistake. Women assume that orgasm is just a matter of physical stimulation. This is because men are already mentally aroused when they are in a sexual scenario. That is why they have an erection. Women are not aroused. No one can name any female turnons. Linda: Except that I did, and you told me I’m wrong about mine. Other turnons I’ve heard from friends: a man’s arms, his butt, calves. The obvious one, penis. I knew a woman who loved when her husband spoke to her in a fake British accent. Turnons are personal. JANE: Turnons must be erotic to cause arousal. You clearly do not understand what erotic means. Men’s turnons are associated with penetration because of the pleasure men enjoy. Research indicates that female orgasm is associated with clitoral stimulation during masturbation alone. Linda: Furthermore, I ask you who is conducting this research? Because I assure you, the orgasm I give myself thru masturbation is the same as the one I can reach with a lover who is paying attention. JANE: Kinsey & Hite based their research on thousands of women. You as an individual do not constitute research. But you are also in denial of the anatomical facts. My work is about educating people. You don’t want to be educated. So I suggest you go elsewhere with your orgasm claims. Linda: And I’m not making a mistake: SOMETIMES the orgasm IS just a matter of physical stimulation. Do you not realize that women can be aroused for absolutely no reason? That they simply crave the physical release? JANE: Release of what? What are you releasing if you have no accumulated mental arousal? The clitoris is not a mini penis. It lacks the muscles of the penis that cause an erection. The clitoris is never erect. The internal clitoral organ not the glans is merely tumescent swollen. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure