TFW: Perhaps statistically it is a minority of women who can orgasm through intercourse. However, it is by no means a small minority. JANE: Over a period of years, I have found that very few women indeed are willing to talk about orgasm by any means. Women mistake orgasm with a lover. TFW: Women do fake orgasm with a lover. As with masturbation, a womans body and mind must be involved for intercourse to succeed. JANE: What does that mean exactly? TFW: It means that any distraction or lack of focus on reaching orgasm can impair orgasm. Thus mental focus & touching herself during intercourse, in other words masturbating, can help women reach orgasm. TFW (cont): A woman can stimulate her breasts or move, for example by wriggling, to boost her chances of orgasm. It means orgasm dependency is the same via intercourse or masturbation: mentally and bodily involvement that is movement and selfstimulation. JANE: But the stimulation of intercourse is very different compared with masturbation alone! How do you get mentally aroused: what erotic turnons do you use? TFW: (silence) Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism