Shubham: By seeing girls why we are thinking of sex?? Means by looking to big boobs or anything else. JANE: Biological sex drive just look at Nature! But humans have developed a bigger brain, which means that they are more sensitive to thoughts. Shubham: Ok. How many times masturbation can be healthy for us. JANE: There is nothing wrong with masturbation no side effects. Shubham : I agree. But how many times a day. May be some limitations for that. We can’t say like no side effects. JANE: You have heard old wives tales. There are no facts that support the idea that there is anything harmful about masturbation. Everyone has a limit. You can only orgasm up to that limit. Shubham: Ok. Means we can do sex as many times we can with as many girls. Is it? JANE: Sexual activity with a lover involves having their consent. You were talking about masturbation. Shubham: Actually I have a gf. I can’t live without sex any day. JANE: Well, as long as she agrees then you are ok. Otherwise you have to masturbate if you want to enjoy orgasm. Shubham : But one month she is outside from the city. Yesterday she came. I have done sex 1520 times. Now she said don’t do. But I want. She said it’s more than enough up to 34 times. But I can do it 1015 times as usual. Tell me good suggestions so that I can convince her for today night. JANE: Women don’t need sex. Only men need sex. Intercourse is a reproductive act. Men can impregnate many women but a woman can only be impregnated once. There is no reason why a woman should want sex unless she wants a baby. Shubham: But girls need sex. They were calling me for fucking with protection. Not for baby. I fucked many for no reason only for pleasure. I dont know what is right your theory or my experience? But then also what’s is wrong and right I don’t understand. JANE: The issue of consent is vital to understand. A woman offers sex when she is amenable. If a man ignores this principle, it is called rape. Shubham: Ok but suppose she is wife or girlfriend then. We men can’t control by looking to sexy women. JANE: Consent still applies. There is no obligation. But most women know they must provide intercourse or a man will go elsewhere. Women don’t have a sex drive. So they don’t understand men’s responses. They enjoy platonic admiration but are offended by mens sexual urges. Women never experience these urges. Otherwise they would see the value of porn. Shubham: Women are also enjoying by watching porn. For self satisfaction. I don’t know you are giving your own experiences or on the basis of reference. I am saying whatever I felt until today. JANE: If you know a woman (just one will do) who is willing to discuss sexuality, please ask her to contact me. In my experience, only men talk of sexual pleasure. Porn is censored because women are offended. Otherwise it would be freely available in adult society. Shubham: I’m not sure. Maybe. JANE: It’s about differentiating between erotic fiction & reality. Men find this difficult to do. Shubham: Ok. Then tell me how women can satisfy themselves. Or they don’t have attraction. All is true then why sex positions? JANE: Men like a variety of positions for intercourse because they like to observe their action. For a woman it makes little difference. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all