Modibbo: Dear Jane. Good morning. Please, do you have an opinion on the attached? What do you think? JANE: Hi Modibbo, it is saying what everyone says. That men are supposed to stimulate women. This is because women are not aroused with a lover. If women were aroused, they would be motivated to obtain the stimulation they need for orgasm and perhaps even offer their partner stimulation. Modibbo: Thank you for this explanation. It clears confusion but leads to another question. Do you mean that women need boyfriend girlfriend sexual experiences before marriage so that the husbands they marry can be able to stimulate and arouse them during sex? Modibbo (cont): This confuses me. Can you please explain more? I hope your explanation here means that husbands or lovers should strive to arouse their wives and women till the women are ready for orgasm during normal sexual intimacy? JANE: Can you name any female erotic turnons? Women think they are aroused due to their emotional responses love. But men know that sexual response has nothing to do with a relationship. JANE (cont): Sexual response arises in the brain as a response to eroticism. So if women dislike eroticism and their lovers are unaware of any erotic turnons that arouse women, they are not aroused, are they? Modibbo: I really don’t know. It’s for the women to explain. Thank you that you are educating us the men. I stay with and read your posts. Have a nice day! JANE: Why don’t you ask a woman? What makes you think that women are aroused by erotic stimuli? Surely if they were, men would be familiar with them? Women talk of love not orgasm. It’s all a hoax based on male fantasies. JANE (cont): But men coped perfectly well before all the fiction about female orgasm. Research indicates that women have sex because they want to please a partner or because they feel obligated. Men reward women who offer them regular sex. It’s always a trade. Modibbo: Wow! I guessed if I ask a woman or women they would not tell me the truth. I follow your page and read the content you post but sometimes I get confused. My belief earlier was that women enjoy sex and have orgasm as much as men do. Now I’m beginning to look at women with suspicion Modibbo (cont): because they may after all be manipulating us men with sex since you said it’s a trade for them. Wow! To think that we men sometimes striving to give our women sexual pleasure till they orgasm. When the reality is that women want love not orgasm! Thank you, Jane. I think I’m beginning to become your student! JANE: Don’t worry Modibbo, we are all surrounded by highly misleading beliefs about and portrayals of female sexuality. We must differentiate between what women say and what women do. Reality does not equate to erotic fiction. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism