JANE: Men are much more sexually motivated than women ever are! Roy: Tell us something we didnt know! Jane: Well it has always seemed very obvious to me too. But few professionals connected with the sex industry including therapists would be willing to officially acknowledge the fact. Jane (cont): Sadly there are a few women who believe for political reasons, womens sexuality must never be acknowledged to be anything less than mens just in case we lose out somewhere not sure where. Jane (cont): Personally, I prefer to talk about sex from a realistic perspective and then we stand a greater chance of getting somewhere. Jules: Women are INDIVIDUALS as are their sex drives but until people STOP generalising and stereotyping, statements such as this implying that women have little interest in sex or prefer to avoid it will continue to be taken as reality! Jane: How do you define sex drive? Is it a drive to be impregnated? If so, why do you think this is? Or is it a drive to achieve orgasm? If so, how do you think women achieve the necessary arousal? How come women never complain of sexual frustration? A sex drive does not rely on having reliable contraception! Jane (cont): In over 10 years of asking women about sex & orgasm, I have found that most women refuse to comment. Perhaps you are willing to be explicit about sexual pleasuring? What erotic turnons & stimulation do you use for orgasm with a lover? What explicit techniques do you recommend? Jules: … (silence) Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism