Nancy:Im curious if youre simply quoting Kinseys data or if youve been conducting your own, current research? JANE:I quote many experts who talk about sex in a way that makes sense to me. I do my own research every day & have done for many years. JANE (cont):I ask women to explain the anatomy & turnons involved in female orgasm. Most women refuse to answer & have nothing to say about sexual pleasure. Nancy:Thank you for your reply. I find it hard to believe that women are not talking to you. Nancy (cont):I hear from women daily about what their turnons and turnoffs are. Where are you seeking these women to talk to? JANE: On the internet Twitter mostly. I ask women to contact me privately. What turnons do you find women quote? Are they erotic & likely to cause arousal? JANE (cont): I find women talk of love & relationships more than eroticism. They never talk of sexual pleasure. Experts refer me to a book! Nancy:Women talk to me about the type of porn they like, the sex toys they prefer, the shape of penis they enjoy most, female ejaculation, Nancy(cont):being multiorgasmic, enjoying sex with women, orgies, double penetration, Sybian use, etc. That is why I’m shocked by your statement. JANE:The difference is that I am a researcher. You are a therapist. You are being paid to listen sympathetically to your clients. JANE (cont):I am much more objective. I challenge, which is hugely unpopular. I ask for details. What does arousal mean to women? What anatomy are they stimulating? Nancy:So, perhaps your approach isnt effective since they wont talk to you? Building trust is key. Nancy(cont):If your style of inquiry is as you say, to challenge them, that may be quite off putting when its about something so personal. Just my humble opinion. JANE:I am not looking for sex stories erotic fiction. I am looking for logical explanations for these orgasm & arousal claims that a few women make. JANE (cont):Such claims cause untold confusion for many men & women who are assuming that people are being honest about their sexual experiences. JANE (cont):You have said nothing explicit. All your comments are general. I am being specific about orgasm. I am not accepting general orgasm claims. JANE (cont):I want women to explain the erotic turnons & anatomy that they are stimulating. Most women have no idea what is involved in sexual response. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism