JANE: As a sex professional, could you give me your views on the anatomy & turnons involved in female orgasm? I am asking women to be explicit. Most refuse to comment. Caroline: I think it depends on the partner. What a woman enjoys with one man, she wouldnt with another because of penis size & skill level. Men might have many things that turn them on but penis in vagina sex will make a man orgasm. Little or no skill required on the part of a woman. JANE: Do you know of a website that provides sex information for adults that is backed by research findings? Sexologists seem to rely on pornography for their wisdom. JANE (cont): Women cannot orgasm from intercourse because it relies on a mans responses ( erection & ejaculation). No one (not even a man) can orgasm within time limits set by another person. Caroline: Well, that is your opinion. I think that women (gay or straight) that cant orgasm with a partner probably have a history of childhood sexual abuse. Caroline (cont): Or possibly they are lesbians who have never been with women and are stuck in heterosexual relationships. It is weird to me that you dont think that women can orgasm with a partner. JANE: Do you have any research findings to support your views? I find that very few women are willing to comment. Most women assume they orgasm just because they engage in intercourse. Caroline: Look. Women orgasm with their partners. Sure, women have a difficult time reaching orgasm purely from penile penetration. Some men are bad lovers. JANE: I do not believe womens orgasm claims that defy all logic and the facts. Women are passive due to lack of arousal & wait for men to stimulate the correct anatomy. Women never discuss sexuality. They are paranoid about men making any sexual advances yet they claim to orgasm from the sexual activity that men offer. Caroline: Im worried you are not who you say you are & that this approach (of asking women what turns them on) is a fetish of sorts for you. Im uncomfortable continuing this conversation. If you are a woman, then seek therapy instead of trying to disprove scientific fact. JANE: I consulted therapists as a young woman. They said that there was nothing wrong with me or my partner. Hence why I have spent the last 20 years researching female sexuality. JANE (cont): Why do men drug women to get sex? Why do women carry weapons to defend themselves against sexual assault? You have been duped by male propaganda that tells women that they are supposed to love sex. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure