JANE: So what turns her on? A man who makes her feel safe and treats her like she is a vital part of his very existence, and not just a favourite sperm dumpsite. Yangki Akiteng Rob: Which is why being a subby (submissive male lover) can be a very special place in a ladys life. You may never have vanilla sex as a sub but you will turn her on with your submission by her knowing she is vital to you. JANE: The word ‘turnon’ refers to erotic arousal for men. But for women it typically refers to a woman’s amenability to allowing a man to ejaculate into her vagina. JANE (cont): So women are not truly erotically aroused. But more accurately they may be amenable to cooperating with intercourse. Rob: Thank you for that. Enlightened by it and accords with my own experiences. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all