Darin: I’ve been married for 25 years and other than when younger I don’t think my wife has had much initiation. She may have had in the past for curiosity when young and to have kids. Darin (cont): However, at the age of 50 this has all but been removed. I find it interesting as she receives at least three orgasms each time we have sex and that’s what I enjoy to do. However, it never increases her needs to initiate or want more. JANE: I would be interested to talk to your wife. So far very few women are willing to discuss these orgasms their husbands think they are having. I suspect they are not strictly orgasms as such. Orgasm comes at the end of any activity that is focused on achieving it. No woman is that responsive one orgasm every 23 weeks is the average. Darin: You are correct as she does not talk about these perceived to be orgasms. She is just not that open about sex in general. She simply stops the sexual stimulation as she is ‘done’ and can’t take any more stimulation. Darin (cont): Typically, it is oral with shallow finger insert massage and she has what seems to be an orgasm. After a few minutes I use a combination of a vibrator, dildo and oral until she appears to have a second. After that we engage in penile penetration with a vibrator on her clit and she seems to have yet another and done. Darin (cont): However, this is not initiated by her and given our busy life schedules it is probably monthly occurrences. It is interesting that you say the average is one per 23 weeks. Are you saying a woman’s body does not recharge to allow multiple orgasms at a particular concentrated time? JANE: Women are not nearly as responsive as men are. This is normal. Orgasm (responsiveness) is a characteristic of male reproductive function. This is why women orgasm through masturbation alone. A woman needs an intense focus on fantasy to achieve orgasm. Intercourse causes male orgasm and female impregnation. The rest is just fantasy! Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism