Valerie:I wish to thank you for your research and perseverance in shattering the myths about womens sexuality. I am 53 and my experience has been confirmed by reading your articles. Valerie (cont): I always wondered why I was so disappointed by sex. Your conclusions will anger and depress many people, especially men, as their fantasies and dissimilar plumbing get in the way of understanding female anatomy. Jane:My work is motivated by my anger at the reaction I have had throughout my life when trying to compare notes with other women. The lack of explanations is appalling for a society that thinks itself educated. Jane (cont):I have contacted many sex experts & asked them to discuss female sexuality. They have all universally refused to do so. JANE (cont):I am demoralised by the refusal of anyone to admit the negativity that surrounds sex. I have concluded that women feel pressured so much by men’s sex drive and that silence is their only option. JANE (cont): But it is an extremely negative silence that results in censorship. I am under constant threat of being shut down on social media for talking about a topic that everyone professes to be enthusiastic about. It is so hypocritical but so difficult to fight because of the sullen silence. Valerie: I believe that many women do not comment due to their investment in being sexual beings because so many want the benefits that dating, relationships and marriage brings to those who have bad jobs and/or desire children. Valerie (cont):Many of the threads about the Red Pill and MGTOW movements bear out your research. They consist of men who have been divorced and/or are in sexless marriages. Valerie (cont):These blogs reflect many of the frustrations of men relating to their sexual attitudes that you so aptly describe in your articles. Valerie (cont):Many of my female friends accept that they will never orgasm from sex. We are now all in our 50s and are well aware of how our plumbing works! Valerie (cont):So they settle for the emotional bonding that they can get from their relationships, plus whatever fun is to be had from a night on the town, dinner or travel. Valerie (cont):The problem is the pressure put on younger women to orgasm from intercourse, which is impossible. Valerie (cont):Women attract an Alpha male in order to secure the emotional and material assets they want, but the sexual attraction soon fizzles, leading to anger for both spouses. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all