Khan : We can change our behaviour, but not our attitudes right? Nowadays people believe whatever they see…. JANE: Sexuality includes conscious behaviours & subconscious responses. We can change our behaviours but not our responses. Khan: Thanks for sharing! Is sex a must for a good relationship? JANE: Sex is vital for men. The wider relationship includes sharing affectionate companionship, talking, spending time together etc. This wider relationship is vital to women. Khan: I agree. But then why women’s or men’s cheats on their partners? JANE: Some women look for a partner with more money or status. Other women are looking for a loving partner. Many husbands ignore their wives unless they want sex. Khan: Very true. But if you ask your partner if you can have another women in bed, say just as a one time deal, would it ruin your good relationship?… or trust?…. JANE: A woman defines love in platonic terms to include loyalty. Women know that men are tempted by promiscuity, but she feels that her love has been betrayed. The relationship threatens her own relationship. She fears that he will leave her for the other woman. JANE (cont): Just think how you would feel if your wife wanted to bring another man into your bed! I never understand what men want to do with two women because they only have one penis. Threesomes with 2 men make more sense because a woman has 3 orifices (mouth, vagina & anus). But men know that many women dont have fantasies. Khan: Jane, Thanks so much for sharing good advice. I think we all need more knowledge about sex from experts like you. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all