Elijah: Hello how are you. I love your genius in elaborating sex. Would love to differentiate erotic fiction and reality of sex! Thank you! JANE: No problem! I enjoy providing information to those who find it useful! I think it is all fascinating much more interesting than the fiction we are told elsewhere. Elijah: For sure you are an insight of what have been looking for, always wondered how to ever know the real meaning of sex…. Not just the act but also what defines it. JANE: Unfortunately, the research findings have been ignored. The apparent evidence for women’s sexuality from erotic fiction is much more popular. Not just with men but also with women who want to capitalise on their ability to obtain rewards from men in return for sex. Sex is a hugely political topic due to men’s sex drive and women’s ability to benefit from male gratitude. Elijah: Wow this is a true insight, so that makes me believe no woman ever reaches orgasms, or what happens to the sex drive one’s you’ve been together for a while. Seems can’t get enough of you, you are a blessing! I am Elijah from Kenya. JANE: Thanks Elijah I wish there were more out there like you! Knowledge doesn’t change the reality but it helps us understand and hopefully deal with it better! Jane Elijah: I appreciate a lot and learning is a continuous process, I love the insights you give. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism