(Nosper Dialogues) Rational perspective

(Nosper Dialogues) Rational perspective

Changez: Furthermore, some religious traditions regard a thought as equivalent to an act; thus, a person who has ‘immoral’ sexual daydreams or desires is as sinful as a person who acts on those impulses. (Masters & Johnson) what an awful concept! Changez (cont): I agree with you wholeheartedly that women should explore their sexual natures to figure out what it is that turns them on, without all the jingoistic restrictions of superstition and ostensible morals. Changez (cont): The simple fact is that a woman in a healthy and sexually satisfying relationship with a man who knows he can please her is not only likely to be happier (which is what life is about), but also more likely to make that relationship a success. Changez (cont): Affairs, divorces, while not necessarily bad in themselves are just signs of people being unable to come to terms with their sexuality. Sex is possibly the most basic part of the human psyche and approaching it rationally is as important as approaching the rest of life rationally. Thank you for a very nice rational perspective. JANE: One of unfortunate consequences of the sexual revolution was to imply that suddenly women were somehow transformed from what they were before (presumably just ordinary women wives, housewives and mothers) into fully motivated and experienced sexual beings. JANE (cont): Women are capable of enjoying sexual arousal and orgasm but it is not as easy as is often implied especially with a partner. Women today are told that every woman orgasms during sex so many assume they orgasm when they don’t. Consequently, there are women out there giving off all kinds of misleading misinformation about how easy it all is. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism