Darin G. : I have been experimenting with anal play during masturbation. I was surprised to see ejaculation simply upon insertion or a handsfree ejaculation. I can’t say that anal thrusting doesn’t really provide any pleasure. However, a vibrator and/or simply penetration with the right size item Darin (cont): provides instant incredible stimulation and ejaculation. I agree in that a woman allows a man to pleasure her as this IS where my wife is at. Her sex drive for frequency of when she wants stimulated by me is minimal to nonexistent. However, I do think she get some satisfaction from the sensation. JANE: Men have the advantage when receiving anal sex because of the prostate gland which can cause instant orgasm. Vaginal fisting & anal sex take quite a bit of practice and a woman needs to be willing to invest the time. Sadly, women tend to feel uncomfortable about exploring many of these more taboo aspects of sexual activity largely due to a lack of responsiveness. Darin : I do agree men have the advantage in having anal sex. That combined with penile stimulation is a blowout ejaculation. I am all about exploring new ideas or taboos that bring pleasure. Seems the more erotic the better. Darin (cont): I have had my wife at the edge of the bed with her legs on my shoulders or on the wall behind me. I hold my hand at the base of my penis (as in a masturbation) and insert 23 inches of the top of my penis while thrusting and using my hand on my penis to make an upward movement Darin (cont): to her Gspot with the head of my penis. This seems to stimulate her or provide a pleasure that is not received during any normal intercourse, I would venture to say. I don’t recall her receiving any type of orgasmic pleasure simply from sex with penis thrusting. JANE: I question how your wife can be having true orgasms when she is apparently so reluctant to initiate or be enthusiastic about sexual activity with a lover. Also why would she not want to reciprocate e.g. by offering fellatio if she was truly grateful for the pleasure you are giving her? Darin : That is the question if the decade Jane! I have been asking myself. Not sure how the female mind works in that aspect JANE: Well, of course men never believe me but the truth is that it is all male wishful thinking. Women never discuss orgasm or sexual pleasure. I only ever hear from men who want to discuss female orgasm. I have found no one who can explain female orgasm with a lover. Also there is no sex research that proves that it is possible. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism