Joe: Throughout my life, I have naively believed that women wanted physical gratification (orgasm). Now, I understand that they wanted companionship (hard to comprehend). JANE: Women obtain significant rewards from men. Protection, security, financial support. They obtain an emotional reassurance from having a man by their side. Men are dominant. Women are more submissive and cooperative. JANE (cont): Nature ensures that men want to penetrate women’s bodies and thrust until ejaculation. This is the whole point. If men just masturbated, where would we be now? Women don’t need a partner for sexual release. In my experience, female orgasm occurs alone. Joe: I agree with all of this! Protection, security, money. That would explain the women approaching me. For a woman to go through life believing these misconceptions and doubting their spouse’s or boyfriend’s abilities is both sad and unjust! Joe (cont): A woman has to accept that either A: Something is wrong with her because she cannot have what society says is possible Or B: The unfulfilling and continuous pursuit of a prince charming who might be able to deliver either through promiscuity (while single) or infidelity (while married) until she gives up and defers to Option A. JANE: Some women tell me that they get an ego boost from the fact that a man wants them sexually. It is vanity or ego. Women enjoy being admired. Sex can make them feel wanted and needed. The key issue is that female arousal is largely subconscious. This is why women & their lovers cannot name any female erotic turnons. I don’t have time to convince people who don’t want to be convinced. Joe: I can, and I do, accept the logic of what you say. I am already convinced. I have learned more from you in the last couple of weeks than what I have learned about the topic throughout my entire life. I really do appreciate you and your work. I feel truly blessed that you have taken the time to even dialogue with me. You have taught me so much in so little time. Your work is very valuable to the whole of society! An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all