(Nosper Dialogues) Physical frustration

(Nosper Dialogues) Physical frustration

JANE: Male sex drive causes men to feel rejected any time a woman doesn’t want intercourse, even when it’s uncomfortable or painful for her. EF: Any time? No. JANE: If you are indifferent to sexual rejection, it is an indication that your sex drive is not as high as that of many other men. Especially younger men have an intense urge to engage in penetrative sex. Their testosterone & adrenaline levels make it difficult to deal with rejection. EF: I was a younger man. Were you? Odd as it may sound, I think I have a bit more direct experience. My quibble is with the phrase feel rejected. Theres a difference between physical frustration & the emotional disappointment of rejection. Ive felt both. JANE: My partner has typically been extremely moody if sex was not on the agenda when he wanted it. I think many men feel unloved if they do not get sex when they hope for it. EF: I think it greatly depends on context: if its a love relationship then feeling unloved is much more likely to come into it. Weekly isnt even a bare minimum, but thats just me! JANE: Male responsiveness varies but many men say they want sex more than once a week. Women accept intercourse as male lovemaking. But women want affection more than sex. EF: Thats where I excuse myself, not being a woman. Always interested in how they experience it though. JANE: Men rarely seem to appreciate it when a woman is honest about sex. That explains why it is so easy for a woman to fake. Men are convinced because they want to be. Men stimulate the anatomy that arouses them. Women are sexually passive with a lover. EF: I would say that your work does indeed convey the facts. JANE: Thanks for your support! Few people comment. So often, people are abusive or angry especially women. Only men talk about sexual pleasure. Women claim to orgasm but get defensive when I ask for details. They are used to having their claims believed. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure