JANE: Why is female orgasm so important to men? Javiera: Because it makes them feel competent, useful, owning their manhood, sense of mastery and deserving of gratitude, love and fidelity from their partner. Javiera (cont): And because some psychologists or coaches mention that for men, the main love language is act of service. The problem lies in the fact they have a hard time knowing if female orgasm is faked or real. JANE: Female orgasm with a lover is always faked. Some women fake orgasm to satisfy a man’s ego or to reassure him that she enjoyed the contact. Female orgasm has become a token of female approval. JANE (cont): Yet men never talk of their own orgasm, which ends their ability or willingness to engage in sexual activity. The same criterion does not apply to women’s faked orgasms which are continuous and can occur from almost any stimulation possible. JANE (cont): Faking orgasm is part of the game that adults play where women pretend enthusiasm for an activity that keeps a man tied into the relationship. Women obtain their rewards (emotional and financial) in return. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism