Rebellion Song: When I watch porn it sometimes makes me feel bad for being a woman. My imagination is way better. Jane: Men are aroused visually by close ups of female genitals and intercourse. Women are not. Such images are often very distasteful to women. This is why porn is censored in our society. Women can use fantasy to soften the impact of sexual scenarios by making them dreamlike with less visual impact. Jane (cont): Women like reading erotica for the same reason. The female approach involves a more complex psychological environment for fantasy. Men get off on just simple images body parts etc. This is in part what makes female orgasm so much more difficult to achieve. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism