Howard: As always, Mars & Venus need to talk more about things that matter, to her! That way Mars learns. BUT if Venus is hesitant to talk on that subject, he will never learn! Nadine: Sometimes Venus herself doesnt even know what really matters to her… And sometimes its not easy to tell your man! Imagine women saying to their partner what really turns me on is Nadine (cont): when I masturbate & have total control over my own body & pleasure, & I dont like penetration or at least I dont like penetration that much. Im not saying I feel so, but I guess many women do. Nadine (cont): Im even sure of it! Telling the truth is obviously very difficult. It implies that we are not those horny sexcraving chicks that men imagine we are & thats what turns them on. JANE: For any physical stimulation to be effective, a person must first be mentally aroused. The clitoral organ is largely internal & does not trap blood as the penis does. JANE (cont): I don’t believe that women orgasm with a lover. All the research indicates that women orgasm through masturbation alone. Men coped perfectly well before the modern myths about female orgasm. JANE (cont): Womens behaviours havent changed. Men persuade themselves that women want sex no matter how women behave. They are looking for emotional acceptance. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism