Harry: Many wives offer nothing more than making themselves available. When this occurs in a relationship its time for the man to end it. So much easier if you are single. For a married man its a lot harder. JANE: I am describing women as sexually passive period. It is only in pornography that we see proactive female lovers. Women are not aroused with a lover so it’s all effort. JANE (cont): Few women offer fellatio or other explicit sexual pleasuring. They offer intercourse because it involves the least effort. Women’s sexual passivity allows men to obtain intercourse. You are taking advantage of the effort women make to attract a man JANE (cont): to get a lasting relationship that women want. You are thereby acknowledging that women are not motivated by eroticism but by a longterm relationship that you are not willing to offer. You will end up alone. Harry: This is all great information. No wonder marriage rates are dropping and hookup culture is thriving. This will work well for men! JANE: The research indicates otherwise. It depends whether you want regular sex or just the challenge of getting women into bed. Couples are still choosing to marry because women like the security that marriage offers. Men are as much to blame as women because JANE (cont): men take sex for granted over time. With good communication, a longterm relationship may provide more adventurous sex play. Kinsey concluded that married men get more sex than single men. So men marry to obtain a more guaranteed sexual outlet. Single men have to pay/date women to get sex. Harry: Guaranteed sexual outlet! Youve previously described womens sexual output in a relationship to that of a stunned mullet! Men take on huge risks to their independence and wealth when marrying. Married men also pay! Hookup culture offers an enticing alternative. JANE: You have to ask yourself: why do men pay and why do they marry? It is because ultimately many men enjoy the emotional connection with a lover they know well. I have known men who live as you do when they are young. But eventually they cannot pull the willing girls anymore. JANE (cont): Perhaps they get bored of the conveyor belt of vaginas and look for a deeper connection with someone they care about. Most men end up in a relationship, like it or not. Or, of course, alone. Take your choice. Men want sex. Women want a relationship. These are the facts of life. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure