Elizabeth: It truly is amazing the number of women who never have an orgasm. I always find it incredibly sad. JANE: Given the confusion over how orgasm is achieved, I have concluded that most women never orgasm.They have no idea what is involved in sexual response. JANE (cont): No one can name any female erotic turnons. Clearly women are not having orgasms with a lover. Theres lots of ignorance and sexual bravado though. Elizabeth: I have, sometimes through fantasy but sometimes just through the act of lovemaking itself. Elizabeth (cont): Perhaps it is different though making love to another woman because we care on a deeper level about not just our happiness but theirs as well. JANE: Orgasm is a response to eroticism. Specifically, it has nothing to do with a relationship. I believe you are mistaken. JANE (cont):I have not found lesbians any more willing to discuss sexuality than other women. Women mistake emotional sensations for orgasm with a lover. Elizabeth: I have never mistaken an orgasm. I know when I have one and when I dont. Youre funny. JANE: So what erotic turnons & what stimulation technique do you use? Elizabeth: (silence) An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all