JANE: Jane invites heterosexual men to share the erotic turnons that they use to arouse their partners. Jacob: I like to kiss and lick a lady from head to toe, then make her orgasm before I penetrate. JANE: How do you make her orgasm? What erotic turnons cause her arousal? What do you do to turn her on? What anatomy are you stimulating? JANE (cont): If your partner, is so aroused, why does she wait for you to provide this stimulation? Why does she bother with penetration if she has already had her orgasm? Jacob: She bothers with penetration so I can orgasm; plus she has multiple orgasms from regular sex. Jacob (cont): We kiss and caress to turn her on and I stimulate her clitoris for her first orgasm. She waits for me because she enjoys partner sex not just masturbation. JANE: Erotic turnons are psychological. Arousal occurs in the mind as a result of erotic stimuli. Physical stimulation does not cause arousal. JANE (cont): Why are you promoting these orgasms your partner has? Does she boast about your orgasms? Why do women not obtain or supply their own stimulation? Jacob: You are wrong about arousal. I’ve sat and watched my partner get aroused by watching me. Nothing psych /social. And promoting these orgasms is a wrong response. It was an explanation of your last ignorant argumentative reply. Answer: if u want to argue, argue a valid statement. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all