
JANE: Orgasm is a vital aspect of male reproductive function because male orgasm triggers ejaculation of sperm. Orgasm has nothing to do with a woman’s ability to conceive. Research indicates that female orgasm is associated with clitoral stimulation & female masturbation alone. Jo: So, their orgasms are for work, ours are just for fun. God is Female JANE: I think there is little doubt that men have fun achieving orgasm but it is not their objective. Men enjoy the sensations of penetration for their own sake. Many men also enjoy their arousal in response to erotic turnons. Female responsiveness is much more limited and occurs alone. Jo: Alone and limited? Women dont hide away in their rooms to sneak some kind of illicit pleasure. We openly experience orgasm with and without partners, just like men do. And the experience is only limited by ones imagination and socially imposed inhibition. Ask a woman. JANE: OK I am asking women and their lovers to explain the erotic turnons that cause female arousal. I am also asking people to be explicit about the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved in female orgasm. No one seems to know these facts, at least, so far! But I live in hope! Jo: Thank you for academic interest and effort to get accurate data on this understudied subject. Because women talk, the answers you seek are available. I hesitate to share such personal info of my and my peers on this platform. Only general is ok here. Better for a written survey? Good luck! JANE: Actually women do not talk. In over 20 years of talking about sex and orgasm, I have found very few women who are willing to be explicit. Hence, why female sexuality is such a mystery. Even women themselves are not willing to provide any answers. That is what I am attempting to do! Jo: I will share that, anecdotally, the controversial G Spot many academics and socalled sexuality experts claim doesn’t exist does not match personal experience. Experiential knowledge is a living truth. JANE: It depends how you define orgasm. Men define it in terms of a response to eroticism and consistent genital stimulation. Women define it in terms of emotions and lovemaking with few explicit details. Certainly, orgasm is impossible through intercourse which depends on male responses. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all