JANE: I have spent years asking women to explain these orgasms that men think they have. I call them porno orgasms because they are common in pornography. But real women never talk about them. Only men do. That is not science. JANE (cont): I am involved in an intellectual debate. Not an emotional one. I want people to explain how these porno orgasms are possible. I am insisting that women define their own sexuality and JANE (cont): stop allowing men to do it for them. Men’s interest in female orgasm comes from their insecurity that sex is a male pleasure. But that is Nature’s intent. Only male orgasm is required for reproduction. Jueseppi: I have had sexual encounters with women, only women, since I was 17 years old. I am now 50. I was taught by a 31yearold woman how to make love to women with women’s needs first. So I’m not a selfish guy who wants to get on and get off. My goal when involved in a sexual relationship with a woman is her pleasure first. JANE: So do you know any women willing to discuss these orgasms? Who can explain the anatomy, the stimulation technique & the erotic turnons involved in female orgasm? You are an observer of women’s behaviours. Until women themselves are willing to talk about these porno orgasms, they remain in the realm of erotic fiction. JANE (cont): Sex education relies on a person’s willingness to learn. You are ignorant of the sex research findings & the 20 years that I have been asking women about orgasm with no success. You are also not explaining any of the evidence I have already given you. Why was the clitoris discovered by sexologists rather than couples? JANE (cont): Why do men want to promote these female orgasms when no one ever talks about male orgasm? Sex is about emotional connection for women. Some enjoy pleasing a lover. Women do not have sex to have an orgasm. If you do not understand this, you understand nothing about female sexuality. JANE (cont): I am asking people to provide the EVIDENCE for their beliefs not just anecdotal, secondhand, but research findings also women who can explain these orgasms, anyone who can explain how women are aroused mentally & the anatomical facts that might support the glans (which lacks any erectile tissue) being able to provide a woman with an orgasm. JANE (cont): Foreplay existed well before anyone knew about the clitoris. You have been led astray like so many other men hellbent on believing that women enjoy sex as much as men do. Sex is a male need. Women enjoy the emotional aspects of sex with a loving partner. This is why women do not pay for sex as men do. Women are looking for love not sex. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all