Mack: Im a female and Im happy to talk about sex and orgasm. If you have some questions for me, Ill give it a shot! JANE: I am asking women to explain the erotic turnons and the explicit physical stimulation involved in achieving orgasm! Mack: Ill have to think and get back to you later today. Mack (cont): I think erotic turnons would be role playing especially feelings of fear versus safety, submission and domination as well as gentle versus firm thrusting and Mack (cont): pain versus pleasure situations for physical sensations needed to reach a climax. I also find the thought of being seen or not seen like being intimate at risky times or places is a turn on. JANE: Im asking about what you need to think about to become sexually aroused explicitly erotic concepts genitals etc. Also what anatomy are you stimulating? Women often mistake emotional sensations for orgasm with a lover. Mack: Hmm okay Ill think about it again. JANE: I think if you were truly having an orgasm then you would know these things. Its not rocket science! Most women never orgasm. But even a responsive woman only has orgasms when masturbating alone. Mack: Well I tried to describe it. Power and safety are what excite me. Details are the means to explore. Role play. Dominance. JANE: Which part of your body do you stimulate to reach orgasm? Can you be explicit? Are you talking about masturbation or with a lover? Mack: Hmm talking about both but stimulating my body manually when I watch videos and with a lover I like being grabbed or held. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all