SK: I feel a bit silly asking this but Im not entirely sure where my clitoris is even located. JANE: To locate your clitoris stand naked or wearing panties with your legs slightly apart. Place your hands down between your legs over your crotch (where a mans penis would be). If you press gently up and down you should feel some sensitivity. JANE (cont): When naked take a mirror and look at the hairy mound (called the vulva). In the middle of this area, lower down the first thing you come across is the clitoris. The clitoris (sometimes called a cherry perhaps it is the size of a large cherry stone) is protected by the labia (Latin for lips). JANE (cont): Buy a porn magazine to see the wide variety of shapes and sizes of womens genitals. The clitoris is as sensitive as the glans of the penis. It is usually much too sensitive for direct touch to be pleasurable more likely painful. JANE (cont): When masturbating women stimulate the clitoris by rubbing over the top of the hood and around the labia. This is similar to men who do not touch the glans directly but use the skin of the penis to stimulate the glans indirectly. JANE (cont): First a responsive woman generates mental arousal from an erotic fantasy (based on penetrative sex). Face down and combined with rhythmic thrusting & buttock clenching, she presses down firmly either side of the labia. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure