Trisha: Once I started having intercourse, I began faking but didn’t think of it that way. I never once did or have achieved orgasm just from a penis moving in my vaginal canal, but I didn’t realize it until we’d been married about 2 years and had intercourse for about 6 years. Trisha (cont): At the time, I was getting annoyed with sex and with my husband asking for it. I now know he was truly flummoxed but he took it in stride. We started trying to incorporate activity into our sex life that made me orgasm. Trisha (cont): I found a way to have an orgasm during intercourse but not because of it. If on the bottom, if he was pressed down flat against me, I adjusted my hips so that I was pressing my clit up against his pelvis. I can grind my clit in circles against his pelvis until I come. Trisha (cont): It only works if he stays still and pressed down against me, and to get my hips in the right position, his penis is usually only a little bit inside me, so honestly, it took a long time to get him to stay still. It was frustrating for a while because he would always try to move in a way that was pleasurable to him, and that would ruin it. Trisha (cont): So, I can’t imagine this is an easy way to just happen upon an orgasm in a sexual situation because men are always trying to thrust. I imagine some women can do a similar thing from being on top because its an even better chance the guy would stay still. Trisha (cont): It doesn’t work as good for me, but I have a sense that’s why there’s this common idea that simply being on top during sex is a good way for women to orgasm during intercourse. For me, it’s never the strongest orgasm I have. JANE: A woman who truly masturbates to orgasm would instantly know that intercourse provides zero arousal. Rubbing the clitoral glans equates to lesbian tribbing but would never cause orgasm, which relies on much firmer pressure on the internal organ. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all