JANE:I used to (fake orgasm), and then stopped, and found that men didnt seem to care. Shere Hite Jeremy: What’s interesting about this quote? Generalization or prejudice? Many men don’t care. But many do. Don’t see the point. JANE: The woman is saying she never orgasms with a lover. But initially she felt obliged to fake because of the belief that women should orgasm with a lover. JANE (cont): Most men don’t care. They focus on their own pleasure. A few men want to believe in mutual pleasure so they don’t feel selfish. Jeremy: What a bullshit generalisation about men. You couldnt be more antimale if you tried. JANE: Sex is primarily a male pleasure. Women talk of love & relationships. They rarely refer to eroticism, orgasm or sexual pleasure. JANE (cont): If you know any women willing to discuss sex, please ask them to contact me. Very few are willing to comment. Sex education is for those willing to learn. Jeremy: Again, this is bullshit. Women can and do enjoy sex, sometimes more than men. Read more. Research more. Mont: How are you telling a sex researcher and author to research more? What are your credentials? Perhaps men should learn to listen more to women and what our needs are rather than walking around patting themselves on the back. Jeremy: She made two sweeping generalisations about men which are not in the least true. One does not need credentials to identify a bullshit generalisation. One just needs a brain in ones head and the knowledge of how to use it. Mont: You are speaking from one perspectiveyours. Id venture to say that Jane speaks from many perspectives and extensive research. Speaking from my perspectiveshe is on point. Jeremy: She has made toxic generalisations about men and their sexual expression. Im calling bullshit on those generalisations. I am sick to death of having men get shat on in our society. JANE: I am sick to death of people who comment on content they have not read & do not understand. You are clearly not interested in the topic. JANE (cont): I am presenting work done by many experts who draw the same conclusion. Education relies on someone being willing to accept the work of others. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure