Peach: Please define erotic turnons! JANE: Stimuli of a psychological nature that cause a person to become erotically aroused. When the brain focuses on erotic turnons, blood flows to the erectile JANE (cont): sex organ causing tumescence, which makes orgasm possible. Men are aroused by body parts and opportunities to penetrate a lover. Women are not. Peach: Thank you for clarifying… That being said, I have to disagree with you that women are not aroused by body parts. I know I am. His mind can stimulate me like nothing else. Peach: Also whispering (or texting) delightful, suggestive activities or desires. A man’s shoulders and the way his eyes crinkle at the corners when he is laughing. Peach (cont): The spot just beneath his navel is quite erotic to me. Also sinewy forearms, his chest, hairy or not. I can imagine those arms clasping tightly, his skin upon mine. Peach (cont): Something as simple as his breath upon my neck before a simple kiss can ignite the hottest fire in me. The cut of a toned bicep. All of these things are serious turnons. JANE: None of these stimuli you have mentioned are psychological turnons that would cause erotic arousal. These are emotional and sensual feelings with a lover. JANE (cont): Erotic turnons are concepts or objects that cause arousal regardless of any relationship. Surreal fantasy works when a responsive woman masturbates. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism