Alex: well WTF is the answer? Dont leave us hanging? JANE: The answer is in the quote. The erectile tissue is within the body of the internal organ. It can be massaged by pressing down firmly either side of the labia. But first, a woman must be mentally aroused. This only happens when she focuses on erotic fantasy alone, sadly for men… Alex: You know it would be helpful if this was a little more straightforward JANE: I think that it is only a total lack of sex education that makes it complex. Every foetus has a genital tubercle that develops either into a penis or a clitoris. Both organs have corpora cavernosa & crura that hold blood (called tumescence) when a person is mentally aroused. JANE (cont): You can google this information. Kinsey talked about the internal structure of the clitoris in the 1950s & pointed out the similarities with the penis. The problem is that mental arousal is required for stimulation to be effective. Women are not aroused with a lover. Alex: I see. So what youre saying is if a woman is not sexually fulfilled it is all HER fault. Well now that makes a lot of sense and explains a lot of things. JANE: Not sure what you mean by sexually fulfilled. Sex is a male pleasure & need. Women prefer loving companionship. Responsive women orgasm through masturbation alone. The key is mental arousal. Women are not automatically aroused as men are. Female arousal is consciously generated. Alex: Pretty sure Im agreeing with you. Although I have seen my wife become what I would think of as automatically aroused every time that damn Jason Statham on the tv. Explain that! JANE: She wasn’t looking at his genitals though was she…?! Mental arousal occurs when a person focuses (consciously or subconsciously) on erotic stimuli concepts associated with genitals & explicit sexual activity. I guess you know this… Female arousal works the same way. Alex: You had said previously that female arousal was different from male arousal and NOT the same. If in fact it is mental then why would it necessarily have to have anything to do with genitalia, ergo fetishes JANE: Men are aroused visually & by realworld erotic stimuli. Women are not. Women are aroused by erotic fantasies but these only work during masturbation because of the intense focus needed to achieve arousal & orgasm. Both methods involve a mental response. Orgasm occurs in the brain. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure