FMG: I saw an article that said sex once a week is good for a happy relationship. That is not true for a man, never. JANE: Sadly heterosexuality must involve a compromise between male sex drive and womens much lower libido, which is essentially their amenability JANE (cont): to providing the sexual outlet that a man needs. If men want more sex, they need to provide sensual lovemaking and invest in being an affectionate companion. FMG: Compromise? She has her period for 10 days. If it starts on the weekend, Im off limits for 2 weekends. Mostly followed by flu, for about a week. FMG (cont): If shes not tired for the last weekend, Im a happy man. I do all the housework and cooking when Im home. Eat, Sleep, Sex: thats all I need! JANE: Why dont you ask your partner about the stimulation and turnons she needs for orgasm? FMG: In my case, I do not get proper answers. I tell her that I want to please her in ways she likes too. But all I ever get as an answer is her donts. FMG (cont): Shes not interested. She never tells me what to do as a lover. Every single time I ask, I regret it. So why bother asking in the first place? JANE: For men, sex is a biological need but its not a marital right. Women have emotional not sexual needs. A woman may offer sex if she feels loved (outside the bedroom). An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all