Whatserface: Women complain about sex, not because all men are garbage in bed, but because womens minds and bodies dont react sexually in the same way mens do. Both men AND women assume they should, but they dont. Caitlin: I thoroughly enjoy being a woman and I know what I want. Communication has always been the key to pleasure. Dont people talk anymore? Whatserface: Have you read some the posts on Janes site ? Caitlin: From what I see it seems to be a yes. People dont talk, they assume. Assumptions are definitely the wrong way to go about it. The post about vibrators made me chuckle hands are always at hand and have body temperature. Whatserface: Right, but hands are absolutely impossible to use in certain positions. I do prefer the precision of fingers but admit it: precision is a bit lost when youre on your knees with one shoulder on the mattress Caitlin: Mmmh, Twister 2.0. I have long fingers! Whatserface: Are you a man? Caitlin: No! Good gracious! Whatserface: You did sound like the practicalities of female sexuality were irrelevant to you there for a second! An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all