JANE:Our society produces masses of porn but no sex education. No wonder men have no clue about real women’s sexuality! Denika: Yeah and thats why you should be cautious with a lot of them too. They have been taught things from degenerate sources and not real education sources. Plus if they had bad parenting or influences, its even worse! JANE:I think it is not entirely men’s fault. Women never give any guidance or suggest what men can do to pleasure them. JANE (cont): Women don’t even indicate when they are amenable to sexual activity. So men are left guessing when & what sex will be acceptable to a woman. Women need to speak up!! Denika: If women give obvious clues they don’t like something with body language, a male should stop. He should also never assume women like anything Denika (cont): based on other women. The fact that some males do not care if they aren’t pleasing the woman they are with is proof they are screwed up. JANE:Men have a biological need to obtain sexual release through penetrative sex. Many men, especially when young, naturally assume that what pleases them, JANE (cont): pleases a woman just as much. Women need to speak up men are not mindreaders. It’s an endless battle against porn! Denika:I once was invited to a class from the shop featured in sex & the city in NYC for a sex education class. They taught me about Denika (cont): sexual negotiation dates in which you go somewhere not sexualized to discuss your boundaries uninfluenced. A good idea for relationships, I think! JANE: It’s difficult for men to understand that women don’t have a sex drive. Most women enjoy kissing & caressing with a loving partner. But in our male dominated society we are told women want the same thing men do: sex ..! JANE (cont):It is very brave of you to comment. Most of my long term & most prolific supporters are men. Women’s lack of interest in sexual issues & lack of motivation to comment, are obstacles in communicating some reality to men. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all