Changez: It seems to me that a lot of the times that women are attracted to men on a physical level and assume that since they are physically satisfied at one point, they will continue to be so. Changez (cont): Many women never get to the stage with someone where they can frankly discuss orgasm and the erotic stimuli that cause their mental arousal. That is an important part of it for me and though I’m not a woman, I would assume a woman might find it just as important. Changez (cont): Of course, men are easy to arouse by and large. Porno, like you say, is just a simple way. Honestly sometimes porn is highly preferable to the awkward mechanics of sex with someone you’re not comfortable with. Changez (cont): You’re right that it requires specific scenarios for some women who only discover them with sexual experience. Your point about masturbation becomes clearer now since I can see how setting particular kinds of moods and exploring them in different ways using masturbation can lead to knowledge for a woman of how to please herself or be pleased. JANE: My experience is that most women only realise what true orgasm is once they have discovered masturbation to orgasm. From talking to other women, it would seem that very few women masturbate regularly as an adult activity in order to enjoy orgasm. JANE (cont): Hence most women who refer to orgasm with a partner are talking about emotional sensations. I am trying to highlight that the aversion that many women have to eroticism prevents younger women learning about orgasm. JANE (cont): Equally the fact that many women see intercourse as the only proper sexual activity, indicates how rare female responsiveness is. Lack of responsiveness means that women do not relate to mens enjoyment of eroticism and are often unwilling to bring variety to their sex life. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure