Eva : I so love to read what you have to share about womens orgasms. I am really tired to hear what society is selling us about our triggers (as women) to get aroused and have orgasms. And all we find is this empty explanation about how we are very complicated and into feelings bla bla. Eva (cont) : What create feelings and sensations are thoughts. Desire and arousal are definitely created by our thoughts and fantasies. And honestly this whole fixation around orgasms as a goal for every single sexual activity is totally absurd. I will keep digging into your writings. They feel so freeing. JANE: Thank you so much for your support! So few women are willing to learn or discuss when it comes to sex. My experience is that orgasm is only possible through masturbation alone. Intercourse is not arousing as the receiver. It is only erotic from the perspective of the penetrating male. JANE (cont): When masturbating, my fantasies effectively put me psychologically in the position of the male. It feels like a director role. I use erotic fiction to find scenarios that cause arousal. The stimulation comes instinctively once you are mentally aroused. But it seems that few women ever experience this mental arousal. I hope you find my information helpful. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all