JANE: Are you prepared to discuss orgasm and how it is achieved? Sara: Have you read our book? It has most of these answered in the most accurate way possible. Let me know if you have any other questions. JANE: I dont understand why everyone says to read a book on the topic. Surely if female orgasm were common, then women would be more willing to promote their own experiences? I would appreciate some personal insights. JANE (cont): I have never found orgasm possible with a lover. I believe that women mistake emotional sensations for orgasm with a lover. This is why they cannot specify the anatomy or the erotic turnons involved. Sara: I see. Well. The book could be helpful then actually. We talk about different types reported by women. Also remember that clitoral stimulation leads to other sensations Sara (cont): in comparison to vaginal. Your own personal analysis is a part of it too. Expectations and definitions around expressions and experiences of orgasm are all confusing for women. JANE: Why are they confusing? Mens seem clear enough. How can the vagina give a woman an orgasm? It is part of the birth canal & quite insensitive to stimulation. JANE (cont): Surely the anatomical evidence is clear? The penis and the clitoris both develop from the genital tubercle in the foetus. Why are women so reluctant to discuss these things? Sara: Maybe because pleasure in most cultures and religions equals pain, greed and negativity. Just one reason! JANE: There are many men though who are happy to discuss female orgasm in explicit detail. This is why I have concluded that they are simply male fantasies. JANE (cont): Women tend to talk of emotional rather than erotic experiences with a lover. This is my explanation for all the confusion. Sara: (silence) Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism