JANE:Orgasm depends on a positive response to eroticism! Raul:We should do our best to make that happen! JANE:Thanks! I am trying to promote sexual pleasure for women. But mostly it is men who respond. Women seem to see sexual pleasure as a male domain. JANE (cont):I think that responsiveness is primarily a male characteristic. Most women don’t seem to understand what it involves. Raul: I think such feelings are commonly due to responsibility felt by women about procreation. Raul (cont): Men are not that committed. Supporting comes from providing confidence in the relationship Raul (cont): & future as expected by both sides: if its a clear scope then but if any factors are partial . JANE:I don’t believe that women orgasm with a lover. Certainly, I have found no women who can explain such orgasms. Only men seem to promote them. JANE (cont): It all seems to be bravado. No one can name any female erotic turnons. So if women are never aroused, how on earth do they orgasm? Raul:It may not be bravado. Open communication allows us to know if objective got accomplished. Also if it needs an additional effort to achieve it. JANE:It is bravado if no one can explain anything. Can you name any female erotic turnons? Can you explain how women achieve JANE (cont): mental arousal with a lover? Can you explain the anatomy & stimulation technique involved in female orgasm? If women had orgasms, men would know these facts! Raul: We are all different. At the beginning of my intimacy exploration, I had no clue how to handle myself. I didnt know what visual & tangible stimulation got me there. I had to get rid of taboos. There is no standard even among men.. Raul (cont): What worked for me may be different for other guys. What worked with females, I have interacted with, was based on communication, trust, then stimulation, once they are comfortable. Also sight, smell, touching… Raul (cont): Each one has their own needs. So being able to communicate, to trust and to interact openly, allows us to get there by boosting positive sensations. Overthinking is one of the hardest barriers to avoid. JANE: All of this is very vague. I am not talking about whether women enjoy sex. They clearly do from time to time. JANE (cont): I am talking about sexual response that is a positive response to eroticism that sends blood to the genitals. I don’t see any women understanding the role of eroticism! Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism