Keith: Hi Ms, I love your informative posts. If you are amenable, happy to relay the enjoyment of the many ladies I have subbed to online and in real life as part of the power exchange in Dom/Sub dynamic you may find it interesting JANE: Not sure what you mean? Keith: I mean that in a power exchange and D/S dynamic, many dommes are hugely turned on by it. I mean they get wet, they play with themselves and at times orgasm. A particular one is chastity play. I have a main domme who is wonderful. She loves to keep me chaste for 2 to 3 weeks at a time. Keith (cont): We go onto spaces. And other dommes join. And listen to her ordering me to edge towards climax. And then within a stroke or two. I am commanded to stop. Re group per se and go again. One night back in January, 3 dommes did this to me 30 to 40 times. Keith (cont): One actually came as we played. I tell you this in answer to your posts about intimacy as how woman can enjoy O and ‘sex’ without penetration et al. The eroticism comes from their own mind and the power exchange of not allowing me as a sub to come. Hope this is interesting. If not no worries. JANE: I do not see how ordering someone about can cause arousal. I think you are just believing what they are telling you. Women talk about orgasm very easily but they really have no idea what is involved in sexual response. Something has to be happening in the brain. JANE: But that something has to be connected to a specifically sexual/erotic stimulus. If they were truly aroused, they would not be talking at all. Sexual arousal involves the mind concentrating on the sensations at hand. Talking is incompatible with achieving orgasm. Keith: In reading your reply, I believe you need to understand the power of power exchange kink. The emotional, physical and erotica reactions are unbelievably powerful. In my case, this is female domination, the engagement leads to ladies achieving orgasms accordingly as explained above. JANE: Men like to boast about female orgasm. Yet men talk about erotic turnons rather than their own orgasm. For some men these turnons have become more important than intercourse itself. This means that their satisfaction relies on paying for them. The women are often not even offering physical contact. Keith: I’m not boasting about their Os. It just an incredibly intimate and powerful thing to hear your Domme cum from your joint play. Their enjoyment comes from the power exchange, and if there is some financial element, they are happy with it, but it is not the main driver at all. Keith (cont): One in particular is now a very dear kink friend my number one Domme. She is coming to visit me in London in a few weeks’ time, so we can enjoy real time in person play. That is the level that D/S relationships can grow to. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure