Smash: I know what orgasms are because I masturbated on my clit to orgasm for a good 3 years before I ever had sex. The urethral sponge & areas around the cervix arent inert. The buildup & response from stimulating my cervix Smash (cont): is the same as with my clit but consistently stronger. Ive done enough exploring to know that my convulsions, contractions, oxytocin rush, and near blackout bliss is real! Jane: Orgasm is not just physical stimulation. Orgasm occurs when the mind responds to eroticism anything else is just sensual pleasure. Orgasm is achieved by massaging the sex organ. Banging or thumping does not cause orgasm. Smash: Im well aware what an orgasm is. I have distinct climaxes from cervical stimulation. I can achieve orgasms from pressure against my cervix and/or from my clitoris. People are built differently. I know I have orgasms because Ive experienced all sorts of different genital stimulation and different responses. Jane: Research indicates that women have no idea what an orgasm is. They think they have an orgasm just because they have sex. How do you get turnedon? What do you do to get aroused? Smash: Theres stimulation and sensation in my cervix for a period of time, a buildup, plateau, peak, and resolution. Slow, gentle sensations touching me, building up & getting more intense, or hearing a sexy voice, or seeing something sexy. And yes, all of that is indeed a response to eroticism. Jane: Those stimuli are emotional not erotic. Eroticism involves explicit genital activity or responses. Not the sound of someones voice. Smash: Except I did say that I get turned on in response to genital touch, and a variety of other things. The erotic and the emotional arent mutually exclusive. My body can get turned on in response to my mind getting turned on. Intercourse can focus on the orgasm of either or both parties. It can FOCUS on one party and still induce orgasm in the other. Jane: Its not a logical explanation for orgasm. Intercourse begins with male arousal (erection) & ends with male orgasm (ejaculation). A woman cannot orgasm within 2 mins! Have you tried asking him to stop when youre done or asking him to continue when youre not there yet? It doesnt work Smash: I have control over stimulation provided by intercourse when Im on top or when I tell him how to thrust. I have told him to continue when I was close, to stop when Im done. It works. Didnt orgasm from intercourse until I slept with a guy with a long enough penis to stimulate my cervix. Im not going to say any more! Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure