Paula: I believe you’re saying that women have been brainwashed to believe they enjoy sex though they don’t or even need it. This sounds all too much like we’re simply toys for men and the only reason they encourage us is because it’s more pleasure for them if we play along. JANE: Women are not turned on as men are by genitals or sexual opportunities. Women use fantasy during masturbation alone. But men want women to be amenable to intercourse hence the hype! Only men talk about female orgasm. A few women boast about orgasm but they don’t understand the need for turnons. Paula: Such as? What are these other bigger erotic turn ons? JANE: Exactly most women have no idea! So they can’t be having orgasms, can they? Paula: Mmmm…. I doubt NOT knowing means not having an orgasm. It could be that most of the time whenever you do have one, you just don’t know how you got there. As it doesn’t happen often enough. Usually, it catches me off guard… JANE: Orgasm is achieved in a very specific way. Anyone who has an orgasm knows how they got there. You have to stimulate the clitoris in a very specific way but always in combination with erotic fantasy. The fantasy causes mental arousal. Paula: Hold up! You telling me that women can ONLY achieve orgasm through masturbation? JANE: Women are not aroused by genitals or sexual activity. So they are not aroused with a lover. This is why porn is censored. Intercourse not only stimulates the wrong anatomy but it is not erotic for a woman. It is just a reproductive act. Paula: What do you mean by stimulates the wrong anatomy? Are you talking about anal ? I read somewhere it’s our G spot… Not sure if I agree or not… JANE: Vaginal intercourse is determined 100% by a man’s arousal cycle. A woman would have to orgasm within the time frame set by a man every time. This is simply not possible. Even a man could not achieve this. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure