JANE: How can a woman enjoy sexual pleasure? Jo: Emotion is closer to body than thought. It is limbic system, acts like breath in linkage. Powerful body connector. Language for that is being coated in bonding and safety messages. The body is delivering like a wellrehearsed play. JANE: I like to avoid jargon. Can you be more specific? What does all that mean exactly? Im asking women to explain how they achieve the kind of arousal that leads to orgasm. JANE (cont): Why do women always talk of emotions and loving relationships! What do you actually do? What do you stimulate and how? I also need to focus my mind on explicit eroticism to achieve orgasm! Jo: The average woman has come a long way. Where were we pre toys, pill and permission to enjoy our body or unashamed self? Therapy is for those who want to change but find themselves blocked. Usually by anxiety or shame. JANE: Yes but what did the average woman do before we invented all this therapy? How can something that is supposed to be natural need so much help?! Jo: I understand up to 20% never or rarely do. Maybe underestimate too. Older demographic? Misunderstood? Variations +++ Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism