Darren: I’m not exaggerating when I say that you make some of the boldest assertions I’ve encountered in quite a while. I’ll admit that I was triggered by much of what I read. But most of that has run its course. Darren (cont): At first my reaction was a desire to fight fire with fire, meaning I wanted to respond with a similar intensity and perhaps escalate the level of assertions. Darren (cont): To be a bit less formal (or, perhaps, more candid), I was trying to figure out the best angle to launch my attack with the objective of ‘crushing you’. Darren (cont): Hopefully, you don’t feel that’s what I’m doing now or that you infer disrespect. I’m just saying it like it is: extreme reaction at first, time goes by, back to a more professional tone. Darren (cont): I think it’s safe to say that hurling insults and accusations will kill any chance of you listening to what I have to say. In fact, come to think of it, I think this is a good place to end. Darren (cont): If you think I’m being civilized and you have an interest in hearing some of my opposing viewpoints then you can let me know. I will not bother you again. Darren (cont): If I don’t hear from you. However, I’m hoping that you’re curious enough (and find my demeanour to be both edgy and sincere) to see where I’m coming from. JANE: Defensiveness is a common reaction. So is abusive behaviour. I am used to it. But it does not lead to logical explanations for sexuality or to scientific understanding. JANE (cont): If you know any WOMEN who are willing to discuss the topic, please ask them to contact me. In over 20 years of discussing this topic, I have found only a couple of women willing to say anything remotely explicit. JANE (cont): I suggest you try talking to the women in your life partners, mothers, aunts, sisters and daughters. See what they are willing to say. Nothing I suspect… JANE (cont): That might help you understand that men think they know it all while women have zero interest in the topic. You are filling a silence left by women but that does not mean you are correct in your fantasies and assumptions. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure