Linda: Here we go… You refuse to accept that eroticism is actually extremely personal. So both men and women have turnons that can vary from person to person. JANE: This is why we have no sex education. People cannot accept that facts, logic & research findings support an intellectual & scientific understanding of sexuality. They want to believe what they want to believe (or boast about) regardless of the undeniable evidence to the contrary. Linda: Oh honey, if you don’t find moaning erotic, you are really missing out. And sure, many women might have sex for an emotional connection. But I can absolutely tell you that some women do not seek emotional connection all the time. Sometimes, we fuck simply because we feel like it. JANE: Sorry but you are not nearly specific enough. Men don’t have sex because they ‘feel like it’. There is much more pleasure for men. It is almost addictive. Women need to be emotionally amenable. This is the core to the concept of consent. The receiver of male ejaculate must agree. Linda: Obviously I’m not talking about running around fucking people without consent. And BOTH parties must consent. But yes, sometimes, women are just horny and will have sex with people with no deeper connection. They aren’t seeking anything more than that physical orgasmic rush. Linda: So this entire back and forth is due to my not specifying that I’m referring to the external glans and you not being able to make that connection? Are you goddamn serious? Also, being swollen is precisely what makes an erection… JANE: You need to look up a diagram of the clitoris. The external part is just the glans. The organ is mostly internal within the body. People assume that it is the glans that women stimulate to achieve orgasm. But in fact it is the internal organ. This is instinctive stimulation. Linda: …. Are you… Are you serious right now? Do you understand that there is an external part of the clitoris and it is very similar to a penis? What do you think cunnilingus is about? JANE: You are talking about porn (porno orgasms) where women respond to stimulation men provide. I am talking about orgasm an erotic response that women enjoy alone. No one had heard of the clitoris before Kinsey. Why was it such a secret if clitoral stimulation works with a lover? Linda: If I had to guess it’s because the clitoris serves no further function other than sexual pleasure, and as such, was ignored. And many times in sexual relationships, masturbation and sex serve the same purpose. It’s just that sometimes there are no batteries and I don’t feel like doing the work myself. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism