Yusuf: Can u tell me about stimulating G spot and clitoris at a time ?
JANE: No. Why don’t you ask your partner? … Man behind the woman allows a woman to stimulate herself (the clitoral glans) during intercourse. The G-spot is a fictitious concept that was invented to promote intercourse for women.
JANE (cont): Women are not mentally aroused with a lover so they do not orgasm by any means. No one can name any female erotic turn-ons. The association between clitoral stimulation and female orgasm comes from female masturbation.
JANE (cont): But very few women are responsive. Most women never orgasm even alone. But even responsive women who masturbate to orgasm do not orgasm with a lover. This is because a woman needs to be alone …
JANE (cont): … to focus on the erotic fantasies that cause female arousal. But you can still have fun with sex. A woman’s role is to facilitate male orgasm but few women are interested in being a proactive lover (due to their lack of arousal).
Yusuf: Truth. So it’s also true that intercourse can’t trigger female orgasm. Here in my country, we have no culture to communicate about fantasies to our partners. But I want to understand how to please her.
JANE: Women want affection & companionship. Be supportive & loving. Sex is for men…
Yusuf: So what we see in movies and read on google are all only fiction?
JANE: Movies are made to entertain people & focus on fantasies. Porn is a male masturbation aid & provides turn-ons for men. Erotic fiction is fiction…
Yusuf: Hmm … But you are saying that women don’t have sexual desires?
JANE: Women have emotional desires. They look for love & romance. They want a man to admire them, support them & care about them. Have you never noticed…? You have to look at sexuality logically …
JANE (cont): … rather than emotionally (what you want to believe). A woman is impregnated through intercourse. Would you want sex if you were potentially going to be impregnated each time? Nine months of pregnancy & years of childrearing?
JANE (cont): The invention of contraception cannot change how the sexes have evolved. Sex for men is risk free. But a woman wants a relationship so that a man will support her with raising a family. That is how human reproduction works.
Yusuf:I’m surprised. Fully agreed.
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