JANE: Mental arousal is vital to achieving orgasm. Stephanie : What does a woman’s IQ have to do with arousal? A lot, I bet. JANE: The problem is that visually or from the onlookers perspective a faked orgasm looks like the real thing. But no one knows what the real thing looks like. So faked orgasms are assumed to be real even though they have nothing in common with how men respond. Women provide behaviours as a male turnon. The real thing is much less exciting… Stephanie : Some of us who have been taught ancient knowledge from the Mayans and secret societies in the Cherokee Nation know what different kinds of orgasms look like. JANE: Sorry but orgasm is a basic response of the human body. It is not something that can be taught. We must first be responsive. Most men are responsive. Most women are not. Stephanie: Other cultures taught knowledge about orgasm so I don’t think your statement is true. I taught myself different positions in which to have an orgasm and it took a lot of practice, for years. JANE: I believe you are mistaken. Orgasm is an instinctive response. It cannot be learned. Stephanie : I have taught many clients how to have an orgasm for over 30 years. I’ve had them when I was not even turned on and it wasn’t because my lover was an expert. I was trained as a dancer so maybe that early childhood training taught my Body and Mind something different than other people. JANE: What anatomy are you stimulating exactly? Orgasm has nothing to do with a relationship. Women seem to assume that even the slightest muscle twitch is an orgasm. Orgasm is a highly specific response of the human body. JANE: These are not orgasms. What anatomy are you stimulating exactly? Orgasm has nothing to do with a relationship. Women seem to assume that even the slightest muscle twitch is an orgasm. Orgasm is a highly specific response of the human mind and body. Dedicated to womens enjoyment of sexual pleasure