Darin: I enjoy the 69 position, which is a barometer for me. I can tell how much pleasure I am providing by how much oral action I am receiving back. However. It is frustrating that my wife doesn’t enjoy this. Lol . Darin (cont): I enjoy eroticism and it is surprising that most women don’t. I am always wanting to perform oral sex or sex with a vibrator on a woman to please her as much as I can as a first objective, if that is the correct word. Do you watch porn to help the mood and fantasy? JANE: Sadly porn does not cause my mental arousal. But I do watch it with my partner to bring variety to sex. It gets me in tune with eroticism but not in the same way that fantasy does. I can masturbate to orgasm within a couples of minutes. JANE (cont): But … the part that takes the times is tuning into a fantasy. Once I have the erotic response to a fantasy scenario in my mind then orgasm is quite quick in coming. I enjoy the sexual release, the pleasure of orgasm and the feeling of lassitude afterwards. JANE (cont): I masturbate to relax and go to sleep. I allow my partner to pleasure me because I know that he is aroused by the activity. But this pleasuring means much less to me than it does to him. Sex is only a physical pleasure while masturbation provides a true sexual release. Darin G. : Porn provides an erotic fantasy. I do enjoy watching large penis penetrating a female or a female performing a massage on a large penis with a healthy ejaculation. Additionally, I enjoy seeing a woman control a male including strap on dildos. Darin (cont): However, I too must agree. I mostly masturbate for the sensation. Almost as if it’s a ‘habit’ forming from the younger years. I frequently masturbate just for the sensation almost daily if not daily. An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all