Kenya: There should be less porno for adults and more sex education. Not just physical, but psychological and moral. JANE: Thanks for your support! Most people don’t seem to appreciate the difference between reality and fiction! Kenya: Porn has made sex cringey. It’s supposed to be beautiful. JANE: Men are aroused by explicit images of penetration and genitals. Women talk of lovemaking and emotional connection. It’s a key difference between the sexes. Men are sexual. Women are emotional. Erotic stimuli are beautiful to men. Love & romance are beautiful to women. Kenya: Yes, thank you. I developed a grown womans body at 12. The way men acted: gawking and groping disgusted me. Now I’m struggling. I’m literally asexual. I do want a happy healthy sex life before I leave this earth. I’m in sex Ed class with your posts. Thank you! JANE: Women respond emotionally; men respond erotically. This makes it almost impossible for the sexes to understand each other. You must hope for a decent, caring & respectful man. If you fall in love, sex feels more natural. But lovemaking is never the same pleasure it is for a man. Kenya: Thank you that makes perfect sense. I’ve been healing my childhood traumas. I’m almost ready for the next steps. JANE: Research shows that women obtain emotional (rather than erotic) pleasure from their relationships with men. Female orgasm is associated with clitoral stimulation & women’s solitary masturbatory activities. But if you dislike eroticism it is unlikely that you will discover orgasm. Kenya: Is erotic the same or similar to pornography? Or is it more romantic with foreplay? JANE: Romance may cause a woman to be amenable to male lovemaking. It cannot cause orgasm. Female masturbation (to orgasm) relies on fantasies. When the mind responds to erotic stimuli (linked to penetrative sex, genitals, etc.) a person instinctively stimulates the correct anatomy. Kenya: Thank you so much. You are taking your precious time to address me. You are helping me. Celebrating our ability to enjoy eroticism